Sunday, April 15, 2012

Week 15 {365 project}





April 8
Easter morning before looking for eggs.  I can never get them both to look at the same time.

April 9
Last day of spring break.  We visited a local nature center that also has a pioneer house setting.  One of the features is an old wooden swing.  They actually sat next to one another without arguing!

April 10
It snowed on and off all day.  Luckily it didn't stick. 

April 11
Cowbirds and Starlings.  Pesky birds that love our backyard.

April 12
I got to feed Connor a bottle.  He and Lila held hands the whole time.

April 13
We met some friends at a park by our house that also has a farm.  Lila was taken with one of the "meows".  His name is Tigger.

April 14
 Brendan as the great blue heron on his nest.  We watched a video that my mom found of a great blue heron being attacked by a great horned owl.  Brendan asked if we could re-enact it together.

Friday, April 13, 2012

Sound advice

Who knew that you could shop for appliances and get great advice on life all in one trip?

The other night we were out getting prices on a new dryer and refrigerator at Sears.  Our kids tend to be a little on the loud side when we are in public.  By a little I mean a lot.  Lila likes to climb out of shopping carts and walk (run) with Brendan.  Their energy feeds of one another and it makes you want to pull your hair out.  I always feel like I look like that frazzled mom when I leave the house....

Anyways, after the very nice salesman walked around chatting with us and seeing our crazy wild children, he said this to us,

"I'm going to tell you something.  Enjoy this.  It only lasts for a short time and then it is gone."

Wow.  I always feel like the kids are bothering people when they act all nutso in public and I'm the mom who can't control them.  He was telling us to soak up their wildness and enjoy it.  Both his boys are away at school and he said he's lucky when they text him and he gets a short phone conversation.

I of course told him how he was in kindergarten and asked how to deal with all the outside influence he is now getting. 

"You instill those values in your home for what is right and then you just have to trust that they will do the right thing."

Hello!  He's right again.  It is so simple and true.  We can't control how others raise their children.  We teach our children right from wrong.  We put those good values into them and then trust that they will make the best choices.

Sometimes you just need someone else to put things in perspective.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Why you have kids

Here are a couple of my reasons




They do your chores so you can enjoy a nice glass of wine:)

**Mom I watched Lila the whole time and Jason was outside too.  Don't worry**

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Easter in pictures

We had a lovely Easter day.

Sunday morning I the Easter Bunny hopped through our yard hiding our colorful eggs.  Brendan looked out the kitchen window like he does every morning when he looks for birds and said,

"I think the Easter bunny came.  I see my blue egg out there!"

We woke Lila and daddy up and got our coats and shoes on to go explore the yard and to find those 10 eggs.  There were 11 but Lila broke my "Mom is Cool" egg right after I colored it.  Guess she doesn't think I'm so cool.

They walked/ran around the yard together looking for all those eggs.  Some were hidden easy for Lila and others up high for Brendan. 

There was only one tense moment when Lila decided she wanted to carry the basket all by herself and kept screaming,
"It's Eye-ya's!!! No Da-den" (It's Lila's!!! No Brendan)

Well girlfriend missed out on carrying after that but forgot about her fit when she found her last egg.  We then trooped in to find the Easter goodies hidden in the house.  This took about 2 minutes and the kids looked over their baskets.  They crack me up that they get excited about pencils and fruit snacks.



We all got ready for mass and the kids did an amazing job at church.  My mom, brother, sister-in-law, niece, and nephew were waiting for us and Lila was so excited to see her Aunt That.  Brendan and Hailey sat by my mom and were angels throughout mass.  Lila had a few loud moments, turned grandma's oxygen on and off, and finally spent some time with daddy outside.

After mass we went to my mom's house for our big Easter brunch.  My sister and her family were waiting for us and my sister-in-law and brother cooked us a grand feast!  It was perfect.  Probably because we also had Raspberry Sparkletini and Mimosas:)  The kids had fun looking for Easter eggs and getting goodies from grandma.  I enjoyed her lesson on the meaning of Easter with all the kids. 





Last on our list was spending the afternoon/evening with my in-laws.  The kids love running around their big yard and seeing the dog.  Lila calls it the "doggy's house" now:)  We had another egg hunt with the girls (cousins), watched the Tigers game, and my mother-in-law took me for a ride in a sports car she had for work. 





My favorite picture from the day.  Great Grandma and Lila


It was a grand day.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

When you need a little motivation

I finally caught the kids cold.  At first I figured it was just my sinuses, the weather, spring, etc...

Nope.  I have nasty drainage, hacking cough, and hoarse voice (mostly in morning and at night).

(Mom I hope you are feeling ok since we have been around you a lot this week.  A cold for me is just a cold.  For you though it could be much more serious.)

Well the other morning I had made plans with a friend to attend a marshmallow drop and then go to the zoo.  I woke up and wanted nothing more to lay back down and wallow in my misfortune of not feeling well and let the kids do whatever all morning.  So I called my friend to tell her how I'm not feeling well and she tells me to just get moving, make some horrible noises to get the gunk out, and get moving.

The clock told me I had about 45 minutes to get myself and both kids out the door.  I casually asked Brendan what he thought about going to a park and watching a helicopter drop thousands of marshmallows. \

 His little face lite up "That would be awesome mom!"

So we scrambled around getting dressed, eating breakfast, packing our lunch for the zoo, and got out the door at the same time my friend called to say they had just left.  The kids chatted excitedly the drive down and were (for once) on their absolute best behavior.  Lila would call out "mallows!!!" and Brendan would tell her, "Remember you just need to get one marshmallow.  Not all of them."

Once we arrived at the event (we had no idea it was so huge!) and found our spot in the right age group (0-4 because 3 out of the 5 kids fit into this group) we waited.  The kids were doing great.  We had to explain we needed to stay together because of all the people and everyone would get a marshmallow.

 It was not long until we heard the familiar whirring of the helicopter in the distance and our group was set to go.  We all looked with our eyes to the sky as it circled around to the park and then finally dropping huge bags full of marshmallows for the kids.


 Lila picked up the first marshmallow she came across and began eating it and Brendan was more careful to choose.  A swarm of adults closed in around us and Brendan was separated from us for a few seconds.  I, of course, begin frantically calling out "Brendan! Brendan!" and reach around to see him just standing there looking for me.  I gave him a quick hug and told him I was thankful that we found each other right away and that he stayed in one spot.

This was just the 0-4 group

They were able to trade their marshmallows in for a treat bag.  Lila ate most of hers by the time we made it through the long lines.  Yes, she ate a marshmallow that was thrown out of a helicopter onto the grass.  You'll let your second child do anything:)  Our whole time at the drop was less than an hour.  We were able to get in and out and spend the rest of the morning/afternoon at the nearby zoo.

I'm so glad that I did take my friend's advice and got moving.  We had a wonderful day and enjoyed lots of fresh spring air.

About 9pm that night I was back to coughing and hacking.  It was nice that our friends were over for game night and got to witness it:)

Monday, April 9, 2012

Watch out...it may be you!

This was my horoscope on my yahoo page this morning:

CancerCancer (6/22-7/22)
You have to speak your mind today -- no matter how scary doing so may seem. Some people need to hear the cold, hard truth today -- and you need to be the one to tell it to them. Do not let the threat of certain people's emotional reactions stop you from saying what needs to be said. Their intense defensiveness is preventing their personal growth. You can't insulate them from the truth any longer. You're not doing them any favors. 

Be careful if I call or see you today.  I may have some things to say that you may NOT want to hear!!!!

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Week 14 {365 project}

Finally getting these posted on the same day as the link-up.  We've had a busy week because Brendan was home for spring break.  Luckily we had nice sunny weather and were able to be outside!  Happy Easter!




April 1
 Lila loves herself some cake

April 2
 Brendan: "Mommy let's pretend it is my birthday today.  Guess what Brendan...if you weren't born 10 weeks early it actually could have been your birthday.

April 3
 Brendan was finally able to meet the ducks!  He was a little excited.

April 4
 Choosing the perfect tulip for our spring bouquet!

April 5
 Tigers Opening Day!  We watched the game with some baseball snacks at my mom's.

April 6
 We found some ducks to feed at the zoo.

April 7
(picture to come.  just realized I never uploaded my pictures from yesterday)